Every relationship you have should have purpose. Either they are helping you get closer to God or you are helping them get closer to God. You should ask yourself; Am I being productive with this person? In this relationship? Am I moving forward or backward? Am I becoming a better person? Are they influencing me in the right direction? What happens when we get together? Is it spiritual or negative? Is it Godly or secular?
If you’re not growing in your relationship (bf/gf or friendship) it’s either dead or fake.